When you truly love / admire a person, the dedication to person becomes automatically high.
From a long time i was having small / big heated arguments with my mother. Recently in those arguments, i learnt myself that i was arguing only because what i thought is different from what my mother is saying. If i thought i would do this and then this... while my mother told me a work which caused my plannings to be disturbed, it was causing irritation to me.
The things start at small level and slowly slowly your whole life becomes hell......
One day i found a solution. Now applying the strategy, things are much better. The solution is Total Devotion. I , now just leave my plannings and do the things as per my mother's wish. Acceptance of things in their form, causes such a big +ve impact, that your life seems to be complete.
Although i am unable to do things as i planned, but... even at many times my planning is failed by my own self. .....